Sexual arousal in men: how to understand that your partner is excited

Sex is an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touching, memories of past intimacy. The sexual response of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that should ultimately cause orgasm.

Signs of arousal in men

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

The desire that appears in its manifestations resembles stress:

• the rate of breathing and heart rate increases;
• dilated pupils;
• voice and behavior changes;
• blood pressure increases;
• muscle tension appears;
• goosebumps appear on the skin;
• salivation increases.

Excitation process:

1. In men, the main sign of sexual desire is the erection of the penis. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator: a small penis increases more during an erection. He sits up and gets hard. The changes that occur contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
2. With the transition to intimacy, the man's arousal increases, and with it all the body's reactions. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic rubbing of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
3. To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. A discharge appears on the erect penis, which is not something to worry about. It is a pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
4. Orgasm is the pinnacle of pleasure; this is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by an eruption of semen. In humans, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds can escape involuntarily, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
5. The release of sperm is due to rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. It starts with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of semen. After the first tremors, nothing will prevent the man from completing his ejaculation. Each ejection is accompanied by sexual pleasure, particularly in the head and body of the penis.
6. After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows out of the penis and the size of the organ decreases. A refractory period sets in, during which the man is not aroused even in the event of physical impact on the penis.
7. The refraction phase is the time the stronger sex needs to recover before a new erection. It does not have a specific duration and can last from a few minutes to a few hours. With age, this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at age 20 and after age 50 the angle decreases significantly.

Discharge in men when excited

Clear viscous discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of pre-ejaculate. This sticky, colorless liquid is released through the urethra when preparing for sexual intercourse or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication are Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain numerous enzymes and mucus.

A transparent secret serves several functions:

• isolates residual urine in the urethra;
• partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
• lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
• The discharge promotes painless sexual intercourse.

The amount of lubrication varies greatly between men. This can range from a few drops to 5ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculate is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, thereby increasing sperm survival and the chances of conceiving a child.

For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraceptive reasons, the question arises of the likelihood of getting pregnant if lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that it does not contain any seeds. But during repeated sexual intercourse, residual seminal fluid stored in the urethra enters the discharge.

Lack or excess lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Any manifestation is individual, there are no strict patterns into which you need to fit. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not linked to sexual arousal. A white, fat-like substance facilitates movement of the head of the penis as it emerges from the foreskin. But a significant accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the penile skin and other disorders. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash off the smegma daily.

How to excite a man

A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth he is excited by the mere thought of intimacy, then with age this is no longer enough.

To increase a partner's libido, a woman will need specific triggers or stimuli. It is in men's nature to evaluate visually, so take seductive poses to excite a man, wear seductive lingerie, let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of desire from a partner also contribute to the emergence of a mutual impulse.

Various stimuli help to cause excitement in the stronger sex:

• auditory;
• visual;
• olfactory;
• tactile;
• erotic fantasies, movies and more.

You need to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.

1. To do this, you should study your habits and preferences in terms of music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help to increase desire, these can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
2. Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
3. The scent of patchouli oil enhances sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the scent of mandarin, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will appreciate juniper or sandalwood.
4. Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you need to find out if your chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
5. For some men, words can be a powerful turn-on. Some phrases, ranging from veiled allusions to intimacy to pure desire, evoke sexual activity among partners. Frankness is appropriate when communicating with a well-known object of passion, and any man will like to talk about sexuality or praise her appearance.
6. Touching of varying intensity is a direct way to arouse a partner. Monotony is detrimental to sexual activity: to attract the desired man, a woman will have to resort to experimentation.
7. You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering different zones and erogenous points. Touching breasts and nipples excites the stronger sex no less than women. Treat your partner to the full range of sensations, from gentle caresses to kisses to bites.
8. Do not skip the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with sensitive stroking with nails.
9. The inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; soft or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses you need to use not only your hands and lips, but your whole body. The male belly is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring your language will be a real pleasure. The partner's proximity to the penis, languor and anticipation will quickly lead to an erection.
10. The penis is an erogenous zone for every man; its stimulation will certainly lead to the pinnacle of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. The touch and stimulation with your tongue will make your partner forget everything that is happening in the world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you will be able to give him real pleasure.

Stimulant medications

Why do men experience a decrease in sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.

Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly solve the problem:

• Leader among stimulant drugs. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, became a powerful and rapid stimulant.
• A drug from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, the active component of which improves erection. The drug does not affect the functioning of the heart and liver, nor does it change the composition of sperm.
• A Chinese medicine made from ginseng and deer antler, which has fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release

Sexual arousal does not always end in intercourse. The body, prepared for release by orgasm, remains in a state of overexcitement. If such situations are of a one-time nature, there is nothing to fear, they do not threaten health and potency.

What does a man feel when he is aroused without release:

1. discomfort or pain in the testicles, slight swelling;
2. discomfort in the penis;
3. tingling in the back of the head;
4. lower abdominal pain.

Among these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Pain in the testicles can be a sign of illness. If their size, density has changed or the pain has become sharp and intense, then you should consult a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person’s sex life. When a man is aroused, it is better to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.